Chat With Chia: Relationship

For those of you who may not know, I have a section of my blog called Chat With Chia. A space where my readers have the opportunity to submit comments, questions, or suggestions. I absolutely love it, but I am completely overwhelmed with the amount of entries. One question I see a hundred times over, is how I stay confident in my relationship given Tim’s career. I’ve answered this question several times and Tim and I have certainly done videos in the past. But perhaps it’s time to take all your FAQ’s and do an updated post on this topic (even though not much has changed). Nonetheless, let’s get to it!

Q: Do you get upset that Tim is around so many beautiful women?

A: No. Tim does an incredible job at keeping me updated with his schedule and who he is with. Whether he’s filming, having a meeting, going to a party, getting dinner, etc. We have built such a great relationship with each other that I have never felt insecure or threatened by his friends that are women. Therefore, there is no need to be upset. Communication and trust play a huge role in this.

Q: Have you ever actually had a fight about his video content?

A: There may have been a handful of content ideas that I wasn’t down with in the past. Once we talk it out, Tim will definitely understand my perspective and come up with something different. This was more so in the beginning of our relationship when everything was still new to me. To this day, he’s so great at making sure I’m comfortable with all of his content, whether it’s for YouTube, Instagram, Podcast, etc. He makes it easy for me to support his work as long as we are on the same page about everything.


Q: Are you a jealous person? If so, how do you overcome it?

A: I get this question a lot. Truly, I’m not naturally a jealous person so I don’t ever know how to answer. Personally, I feel secure in my relationship, I have great friends in my life, I have a healthy relationship with my family, I am genuinely happy and feel blessed.

Full disclaimer: I am not a therapist by any means, so please don’t quote me on any of this. I think jealousy can stem from several factors and it’s important to surround yourself with things that you love and that make you happy. The things that make you happy will allow you to feel confident in what you’re doing. When you’re confident, fears seem to fade away, and so do insecurities. If something isn’t making you a better person, why would you want that in your life? You feel me?

Q: Has there ever been a female fan that crossed the line?

A: Luckily, no. All the fans that Tim has come across whether in person or through socials have been respectful. They are gracious and kind whenever I am present, which is so sweet. I even have had girls ask me first if it’s okay that they take a picture with Tim. I have heard of some crazy fan stories from other people, but none of which have happened to Tim. For that, I am grateful. Thank you, beautiful people!


Thank you for all the submissions in regards to this topic. There were hundreds to go through, but they ultimately were all asking the same thing. Please continue to send me comments, questions or suggestions. I am definitely always checking them and will continue to do these posts for you! Click here to leave me a message =)

If you want to read more about this topic, check out my other post here.